Natural Remedies for Intimacy Problems

Last week a man came to me complaining that he is not able to perform intimately with his wife as well as he used to. He said he is in his early 50s, in fairly good health without any major diseases. Although he has the desire (shahwat) to be intimate with his wife, but for some weird reason he can’t seem to perform and its making him feel bad. Understandably, this can cause problems in the marriage and family life. It can eat at the man’s ego of not being “man enough”. It can make him feel small and inadequate. This condition can also make the wife feel unsatisfied in the marriage, though she may say its alright just to pacify the husband.

On the medical side, there are surgeries and drugs to handle this particular problem. Unfortunately, they have terrible side effects that can cause bigger problems down the line. On the natural healing side, there are several remedies that are proven to help curb this problem and rejuvenate the man’s manhood. Also, it important to look into the emotional causes of impotence such as work stress or negative feelings towards the spouse for something she may have done or said.

Being unable to perform intimately with your spouse can be a difficult problem to resolve. Fortunately, there are several natural healing remedies that can help overcome this problem. Its also good to get the exact diagnosis from a medical doctor to pinpoint the exact cause of this ailment. Then to turn to natural healing remedies to heal the problem safely and without the terrible side effects. In addition to the physical cause of intimacy problems, there are also the emotional reasons that need to be addressed. This can stem from anxiety, work stress or holding anger towards the spouse.

The symptoms of impotence or erectile dysfunction are reduced sexual desire, trouble getting an erection or trouble keeping an erection. Also men with erectile dysfunction can be suffering health conditions from diabetes or heart disease, high blood pressure, high cholesterol. It can also come from bad habits such as smoking and sedentary lifestyle (having a sitting job).

Erectile dysfunction can also be caused by emotional factors such as anxiety, depression, stress, and trouble relationship with spouse. These emotional reasons must also be looked into in order to fully resolve the erectile dysfunction problem.

1. Exercise and Diet

Regular exercise is the treatment that can have the greatest impact on erectile dysfunction,” says Zachary Mucher, MD, a urologist in Sugar Land, Texas. “Exercise works on several fronts to combat the development of ED and help reverse it once it has become a problem.”

Exercise improves blood flow, which is vitally important to a strong erection, and improves blood pressure by increasing nitric oxide in blood vessels. Weight-bearing exercise can increase the natural production of
testosterone, a significant factor in erectile strength and sex drive. 

“The foods you eat can have a direct impact on erectile dysfunction”, Dr. Mucher says. “A diet rich in fruit, veggies, whole grains, and fish, and with fewer servings of red meat and refined grains, decreases the risk for ED.” 

Exercise and diet can play a big role in resolving erectile dysfunction. According to one Harvard study, just 30 minutes of walking a day was linked with a 41% drop in risk for ED. Other research suggests that moderate exercise can help restore sexual performance in obese middle-aged men with ED. In the Massachusetts Male Aging Study, eating a diet rich in natural foods like fruit, vegetables, whole grains, and fish — with fewer red and processed meat and refined grains — decreased the likelihood of ED.

A healthy diet also helps to maintain a healthy body weight, which is important because men who have a 42-inch waist are 50 percent more likely to have ED than men with a 32-inch waist. Also, obesity increases the risk for vascular disease and diabetes, two factors that contribute to ED.

2. Hijama and Herbs

According to Hijama perspective, erectile dysfunction is due to blockages in the liver and kidney channels. When energy and blood movement are blocked in these channels, the genitals become malnourished, limp and wilted.

Hijama helps to remove blockages from the liver and kidney channels which play an important role in the functioning of the genitals.  One of the herbs for erectile dysfunction is Tongkat Ali (long jack). Tongkat Ali is the main ingredient in the herbal blend called Testosterone Booster which is available from HijamaHerbs. Other herbs include horny goat weed, ashwangandha, ginkgo biloba, maca root, mucana pruriens, black seed and fenugreek.

Performing Hijama by a skilled practitioner who is well versed in this healing modality, can remove the blockages and allow the smooth flow of liver and kidney energy and invigorate the blood circulation which in turn strengthen the genitals.

The herbal blend called Testosterone Booster has its chief ingredient as Tongkat Ali (Long Jack) which is mostly found in Malaysia and Indonesia. Tongkat Ali has been shown to increase strength of body, stimulates the production of testosterone that is one of the important hormone for men, and helps to increase the blood rate and body metabolism.

Other herbs include horny goat weed, ashwagandha, ginkgo biloba, black seed and fenugreek. These herbs are included in a herbal blend called Testosterone Booster made by HijamaHerbs.

Doing Hijama and taking herbs together have been proven to be more effective as they have a synergetic effect on erectile dysfunction.

3. Emotional Reasons

If your doctor doesn’t find a physical reason, there may be emotional reasons for your erectile dysfunction.

These can include:
* Stress at home or at work
* Relationship problems
* Problems communicating with your spouse
* Depression
* General anxiety
* Problems with self-esteem
* Feelings of self-consciousness during intimate relations
* Anxiety or nervousness about having intimate relations
* High expectations of yourself or from your spouse about your performance

Another cause for erectile dysfunction which is often overlooked is the emotional aspect. The person may be very stressed out due to overload of work or mental confusion. Or he can be holding anger towards his wife for something she said or did but he doesn’t want to express his disappointment, so he keeps it within himself. This in turn affects his performance in bed. There is now family counseling or coaching offered by HijamaHerbs that can help clear these emotional problems.

HijamaHerbs treatments are based on finding blockages in the physical body, mental/emotional and the spiritual side (in case of sihr/jinn afflictions). When the blockages are correctly identified, then Hijama is performed to clear the blockages, and herbs are taken to rejuvenate the internal organs. To clear emotional blockages, Rahmah emotional clearing procedures are utilized.

HijamaHerbs sessions for ladies is performed by Nusrat Shah. For children, we normally do not perform hijama, however herbs, homeopathic remedies and emotional healing is performed. Also available, emotional healing, counseling for married couples, counseling for young adults seeking their true career path.

For more information or to set up an appointment, contact Amin Shah at 617-787-5151 or email – We are based in Boston, MA – USA.

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